"But You Know Me!" – Why My Readings Are Still Evidential

This is probably the question I get asked most often by friends, family, and people in my local community: "How can you give me messages from my loved ones when you already know me? You knew my grandparents, so surely you already have that information!"

I completely understand why people ask this – it's a fair question. But here's what makes my connection to Spirit so special and why I'm incredibly strict about the evidence I bring through.

Spirit Has to Work Harder for Me

When I connect with Spirit, I don't accept general information or things I might already know. I demand that they give me details I could never know, no matter how well I know someone or their family.

Spirit will show me:

• Private thoughts and feelings that were never shared
• Moments that happened behind closed doors
• Conversations I was never part of
• Personal details that were kept quiet
• Memories from times and places I've never been

Even if I knew your grandparents in life, there's still a wealth of evidence Spirit can provide to prove they're still with you. They'll bring up the intimate moments, the private jokes, the things that only you and they shared together.

Even My Own Family Surprises Me

Here's the thing that makes this extra special – even when I read for my own mum and dad, I bring up things about their loved ones that I never knew. Some of the information that comes through genuinely shocks me, and I think, "How did I not know that?"

That's the beauty of Spirit communication. No matter how close you are to someone, there are always private moments, hidden feelings, and personal experiences that you weren't part of. And that's what Spirit uses as valuable evidence.

A Lesson From the Beginning of My Journey

When my journey first started, I even got some information from my paternal grandmother to give to my cousin. Back then, I wasn't as connected with Spirit as I am now, but I still got a very valuable piece of information for my cousin, and I was really happy about it.

My cousin and grandmother were extremely close, and I found it very comforting to know that I could give her that message. But if I'm being honest, it also taught me something important – perhaps a bit selfishly – that I can connect with anyone, even people I know well. That early experience showed me that Spirit will always find a way to bring through evidence that matters, regardless of my relationship with the person receiving the message.

The Evidence Is Always There

The truth is, we never know everything about anyone – not even the people closest to us. Everyone has:

• Private thoughts they never voiced
• Moments they experienced alone
• Feelings they kept to themselves
• Memories they never shared

This is what Spirit brings through in my readings, and it's what makes the connection so powerful and evidential, regardless of whether I knew the person in life or not.

So yes, I might know you. I might have known your loved ones. But Spirit knows things that none of us knew – and that's what makes the evidence undeniable.